Say you’re on a date with someone who’s great in all the most important ways: They’re attractive, they’re good-looking, they’re really hot. You’ll probably give them a little leeway if they don’t see eye-to-eye with you on everything.

Except for these. A new survey by OKCupid found the six dating questions that are guaranteed instant deal breakers.

So if you don’t agree on the answers to these six broad questions, you’re doomed.

1. Do you discriminate against any race? The most common answer is “no.”

2. Is interracial marriage a bad idea? The most common answer is “no.”

3. Do you do any drugs harder than weed? The most common answer is “none.”

4. How often do you shower? The most common answer is “at least once a day.”

5. How often do you brush your teeth? The most common answer is “at least twice a day.”

6. Do you think using contraceptives is morally wrong? The most common answer is “no.”