There’s no way to hear this list and feel like you’re succeeding in life. But you’re not some conformist puppet, you’re an independent free spirit. Yeah, that’s it!

Here are the results of a new survey on the average age when people hit different major milestones in life:

First kiss . . . age 15.

Buying your first car . . . age 22.

Getting engaged . . . age 25.

Getting married and buying your first place . . . 27.

Having your first child . . . 28.

Having your second child . . . 31.

Becoming a boss at work . . . age 34.

Moving to a bigger house . . . age 36.

Making six figures . . . age 37.

Retiring . . . age 60.