There’s a whole new set of dating rules in this modern Tinder-sexting-Facebook world. You know, because things weren’t complicated enough before.

A new survey asked people to name the most annoying dating habits of 2016. Here are the top five:

1. Ghosting. If you don’t know the term, it’s when someone suddenly stops all forms of communication with someone they’ve been dating and basically just disappear, like a ghost. Obviously it’s a passive-aggressive, non-confrontational way of ending things.

2. Social media stalking.

3. Sending unsolicited naked photos.

4. Not responding to someone’s messages and just leaving them hanging for long stretches.

5. Leading people on.